The time after the divorce is finalized may initially feel exciting because you get to move forward and begin your new life. But reality sets in quickly and you may find yourself in a state of “what do I do now?”
A new level of shock and grief may be coming up for you and stopping you from doing anything to change your life and move forward in a new direction.
You may be trying to grasp onto anything that looks or feels familiar to try and find solid ground. Anything to get rid of those painful feelings.
The main thing to remember if you are feeling this way, is that you will get through it. You will not stay in this place of uncertainty and pain forever.
I’m sure you don’t just want to continue with the status quo and continue to live your life the way you have in the past. What got you to this place is the same level of consciousness you’ve been living in.
In order to create positive, lasting change and go in a new direction, you need to raise your level of thinking, also known as raising your consciousness. You need to start doing things differently than you’ve done them before.
SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?
Your OLD life. You need to truly release your old ways of thinking and your old ways of doing things. Think about that. In order to truly create the life you desire, you have to give up doing the same things you are doing that are keeping you on the same trajectory as the past.
You have everything within you that you need to release your OLD life and build a new one.
What would you have to do differently today to step onto your new path?
- Stop procrastinating on doing the things you know will make you feel better like eating healthy and exercising.
- Begin doing the inner work that you know will release old limiting beliefs and toxic patterns that keep you stuck.
- Let go of the grief and regret you may be still holding onto from your divorce.
- Focus on personal development as if your life depends on it, because creating your new life does depend on it.
Believe with your whole heart that you are capable of creating the life you desire no matter where you are starting from. You have the power within to have all the desires in your heart. They were not put there to make you suffer. The desires you have are yours to find a way to bring them into your physical reality. Let that sink in.
So when you find yourself in the empty space between your OLD life and your new one, and you feel hopeless and lost, what do you do?
The first step is to believe that you can do it. You can change your life and live the life you imagine. It’s all in you. I know it and I believe that you can achieve anything you desire.
The next step is to understand the purpose of all of this.
So what in the world is the purpose of all this pain, fear, and hopelessness?
The purpose of this empty space is to uncover all that is blocking you from creating what you have always dreamed of for your life.
It’s to finally bring forth your heart’s desires into your physical reality. It’s to go right into the empty space and ask yourself some powerful questions such as “what do I most need to learn in order to radically change the course of my life?”
When you are living your highest potential and feeling vitality, joy and passion, you uplift others around you. This is how we help heal others and the world around us. Your purpose, first and foremost, is to heal yourself.
The heartbreak and divorce was the opening and awakening you needed to get to a place to finally look at what is holding you back. This is how you can use the pain you are experiencing as a catalyst to living into your BEST self and living a life YOU love. It’s not only possible, but probable when you do the inner work.
I was an emotional mess when my marriage fell apart. And I did a lot of healing work to get myself to a better place, emotionally, at least. But once the divorce was final and my home was sold and I was thrust into a new world not of my own volition, I felt lost, empty, and in shock. A new level of shock and grief came up.
It was almost unreal because I thought I was through the worst part of the journey.
In my exclusive new E-guide, I explain this phenomenon. And I give you tools and strategies to not only work through this specific time in your life, but to get you on your path to creating a life you LOVE.
There is a power that you have within that needs to be unlocked. It is always there waiting for you to turn the key and ignite it.
If you’ve been struggling to find your way after your break-up or divorce, then my E-guide can show you the way to creating all that you desire for your life. It will give you the keys to finally unlock your inner power to create massive change in your life.
This E-guide can get you started on your path to FREEDOM. Freedom from despair and grief. Freedom from your worries and struggles. Freedom to be who you were meant to be.
I want that for you. It’s my heart’s desire to help you overcome your grief and heal on a level that was unattainable before your break-up or divorce.
With Love and Light,
Lisa
Positive Quote of the Day: “The best way to predict the future is to create it.” -Abraham Lincoln
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