Divorce is a life-altering experience that often comes with not only emotional devastation, but financial upheaval. For many women, the financial aspect—especially the feeling of “losing” money—can be particularly disheartening.
The actual divorce may be costing you a small fortune due to having to fight your ex every step of the way which can feel very defeating. You may feel you don’t have the resources to go out on your own and create a good life for yourself and your children if you have them.
Fear of the future may cloud your judgement on what is fair and right for both you and your ex. You may be going into the divorce proceedings angry and seeking revenge.
The problem with this approach, is that you will stop the flow of allowing more abundance to show up in your life. There is no limit to the amount of money you can have even though you may feel that if you don’t get what you want now, you’ll be struggling financially after the divorce. Fear will always stop your connection with your Higher Self who does have a longer range perspective than the limited mind alone.
- What if you could shift your perspective on what a financial loss represents?
- What if, instead of a setback, you viewed it as an opportunity for growth, healing, and transformation?
- What if it fuels your desire to create your own financial stability after the divorce?
Here’s a spiritual take on what losing money during a divorce might mean for your future, and how you can take steps toward a fulfilling, abundant life post-divorce.
Here are 3 shifts in perspective that can alter the way you view your life going forward even after “losing” money during your divorce.
The Spiritual Meaning of Loss
From a spiritual perspective, loss often symbolizes change and release. In the context of divorce, the financial loss you have experienced might feel like a defeat on the surface, but it can also be seen as the shedding of an old life—one that no longer serves you.
Money, at its core, is a form of energy. It flows in and out of our lives, and its presence or absence often reflects deeper truths about our inner state. If you lost money in your divorce, it doesn’t mean that you are doomed to financial struggle forever. Instead, this loss could symbolize a release of past attachments, beliefs, or roles that kept you from embracing your true self. This shedding of the old creates space for something new and more aligned with your spiritual and personal growth.
If you can keep this higher perspective on the forefront of your mind as you continue to go through your divorce proceedings, you may find you are feeling calmer and more confident in your ability to create a good life even if you “lose” money.
Embracing the Lessons
A financial loss of any size invites us to confront our beliefs about scarcity and abundance. In the aftermath of divorce, it’s common to feel a sense of fear or worry about the future, especially around finances. But spiritually, this can be an invitation to examine and heal any limiting beliefs about worthiness, security, or inner power to change the trajectory of your future.
If you find yourself in this situation, ask: What is this loss teaching me? Is it encouraging you to trust more deeply in the universe’s provision? Is it pushing you to step into your power and claim your financial independence in ways you haven’t before? Perhaps it’s teaching you to cultivate self-worth beyond external measures like money or relationships.
Redefining Abundance
Abundance isn’t just about how much money is in your bank account. It’s a state of being, a mindset that allows you to see the blessings and opportunities around you, no matter what your external circumstances look like.
After divorce, you may be facing the challenge of redefining your sense of worth and abundance. This is the perfect time to embrace the spiritual principle that true abundance comes from within. Whether it’s the richness of your friendships, the love you have for yourself, or the joy you find in your passions, you can begin to cultivate a deeper sense of fulfillment that isn’t tied to financial status.
This doesn’t mean you won’t be able to recover financially or that you are destined to struggle now that you are divorced.
The results of your divorce and how much money you leave the marriage with or how much you “lose,” does not define the rest of your life. I know it can feel defeating at first. But with these new perspectives to contemplate, you will see that you have more power than you know to create how you want your life to be from this point forward.
What You Can Do Now: A Spiritual Roadmap
If you’ve lost money during your divorce and feel uncertain about the future, here are some spiritual practices and practical steps to help you regain a sense of peace, empowerment, and abundance:
- Practice Gratitude: Focus on what you do have, not what you’ve lost. Cultivating gratitude shifts your energy from lack to abundance, helping you attract more positivity into your life. Write down three things you’re grateful for every day, no matter how small. There have been numerous studies done on how gratitude fuels your vibration so you are living from a place of love and abundance, not fear. It is from this state of gratitude that more of what you desire can show up in your life.
- Release Old Attachments: Let go of any lingering anger or resentment tied to the financial loss. These emotions can block the flow of abundance into your life. Engage in forgiveness practices—whether that’s forgiving your ex, the legal system, or yourself.
- Affirm Your Worth: Speak positive affirmations daily to remind yourself of your inherent worth. Money does not determine your value. Say things like, “I am worthy of abundance,” or “I attract wealth in all forms.”
- Trust in Divine Timing: Financial recovery might take time, but trust that the universe has your back. Sometimes the timing of our financial breakthroughs aligns with our inner transformation. As you heal and grow, opportunities for prosperity will emerge.
- Take Practical Action: While spiritual work is important, don’t forget the practical steps. Meet with a financial advisor, set clear goals, and create a plan that helps you rebuild your financial foundation. Empowering yourself in this way complements the inner work you’re doing.
- Reconnect with Your Purpose: Sometimes financial loss is a catalyst for discovering or reconnecting with your deeper purpose. Now is the time to ask yourself: “What do I truly want from life?” Use this period as an opportunity to follow your passions or pursue a career that brings both joy and financial security.
Looking Toward a Brighter Future
The financial challenges you face post-divorce are not the end of your story. Spiritually, they could be the beginning of a new chapter. This new chapter could include you being more aligned with your true self, more aware of your inner abundance, and more confident in your ability to create a fulfilling and prosperous life.
You are not defined by your losses, but by how you rise from them. In embracing a spiritual perspective, you allow yourself to trust the process, heal old wounds, and move forward with a renewed sense of hope and empowerment. Your future is filled with possibilities. As you continue to do the inner work, you’ll attract the outer abundance that reflects your worth.
Trust the journey. You are exactly where you need to be.
Wishing you so much peace and joy,
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